Rest Is Best
Rest is super hard for me. Maybe it is for you. Once a Godly woman came up to me, out of the blue, and said God had given her a word directly for me. What, me? Yep. You guessed it. That word was rest. I frowned. I cringed. Shouted no! Ultimately I accepted my word. I needed to embrace much needed rest.
I've never been good at rest. Never been good at slowing down. "Things will settle down after I accomplish this" and then more and more "this" takes place.
It tempers me to filter my every yes through my husband's lens seeking his okay before proceeding. He is very good at rest and seeing my limitations. Those limitations are becoming way more frequent.
It has been a very busy summer season at my house. Obligations have been back-to-back-to-back. These weren't things I scheduled myself but I fell to the calendars of worthy others. These activities allowed next-to-no in between time... or so I thought.
God thought differently.
God miraculously stopped me in my tracks in the between times to give me rejuvenating rest. I didn't see how there could be any in between at all. God found some. It wasn't fun. I protested. I'm protesting now. I write this as I have felt "under the weather" for close to 2 weeks. That is after a series of "not feeling well" off and on for months for different reasons. It's sure hard to admit we're human!
We humans have to face up to our limitations. I have been characterized throughout my life with endless energy. I can "get ur done" from dawn 'til dusk.....or I used to. My 50's brought full strength. My 60's not so much. I have my limits. I must recognize this and adjust. It's not fun nor easy. I must have down time in the in between.
I can't go back-to-back or I'll hurt my back! If tasks come on thick, then I'm sure to get sick!
You mean I can't do that? Not this one little thing? Nope.
It goes against my grain to say no. It was hard to tell my oldest no a few weeks ago. He and his family could not come home for a visit the same day I was finishing up a 5 Day Bible Club in my garage. I just can't as difficult as that is to admit. Sometimes our answer has to be no.
Our no could be just for now. My family will visit in a few weeks after I've had some down time to rejuvenate and up time to prepare. That's okay. Maybe all the hard work required will be more regarded and recognized.
Let's learn our limitations. Accept them. Lean into them. We need not do less but merely take more time to do what we do. Everyone can wait. Greater appreciation may come in the waiting. The job will still get done but possibly with a little help from our friends.
How is your energy level these days? You adjusting well? Are you good at rest? Please comment below. We're walking this road together... honestly and honorably!
May I suggest
rest is best.
It is a vital
worthy quest.
Well said😊
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DeleteSo true Angela! I feel your pain. It is not easy adjusting to getting older. However, this season in our lives offer us new growth, new wisdom, and a more intimate time with God. The lessons He teaches us we can share with others so it is worth it and will not only bring us more joy but others too. Thank you for being open and helping others. God is using you! Rejoice!
ReplyDeleteWords of wisdom.....Thank you!!
DeleteI was thinking that you are the Energizer Bunny with each new ministry you supported and resourced. I’m thankful you shared and that you got the Lord’s rest! Have a great visit with your cuties or if they’re gone already - what a good God to give you so much love and more blessing of children to enjoy and love.
ReplyDeleteThank you and Yes I am blessed indeed!!
DeleteI read this one before but didn’t have time to comment. I cannot believe it’s been well over a month since then, time flies. This Aug. blog is a good word. One that reminds me I am not alone in this “slowing down some”, phase of life. It certainly feels foreign! But it’s necessary to take stock of our daily lives and scale back some….. we want our work for the lord to be fruitful and not to see us slip-sliding sideways & in reverse! Love you sister❣️ I know it’s a busy unpredictable season for you- y’all are in my prayers often😘Keep on writing!
DeleteA lot of wisdom in this post. Thanks Angela!
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